The Lies We Believe When We’re Lonely
There’s a quote that gets under my skin every time I read it: “We all eat lies when our hearts are hungry.” God, isn’t that the truth? Loneliness doesn’t always show up as silence or solitude. Sometimes, it looks like staying in a toxic relationship because the idea of being alone feels worse. Or saying “yes” […]
Fibromyalgia Fatigue: The Energy Crash No One Warns You About!
If you live with fibromyalgia, you know the feeling—one minute, you’re functioning (sort of), and the next, it’s like someone pulled the plug on your energy. Imagine your body is a phone stuck at 1% battery no matter how long you charge it. No amount of coffee, pep talks, or sheer determination will get it […]
From Flares to Flair: How Fibromyalgia Exposes the Real You (And Your Dark Humor)
Let’s face it—no one wakes up thinking, “You know what I need today? A chronic illness to guide me on a path of self-discovery.” But life, in all its charming unpredictability, sometimes hands you fibromyalgia and says, “Here, figure this out.” And guess what? You do. You figure it out. And in the process, you […]
The Days Move Faster Than I Can Live
Some days feel like a blur, as if time itself has slipped out of my hands, moving at a relentless speed while I stand still. I wake up, and before I can truly settle into the morning, it’s already evening. Another day gone, another set of intentions left half-formed, another reminder that life doesn’t wait […]
The Midnight Monster That Doesn’t Quit
Ah, painsomnia—the insomniac love child of chronic pain and sheer exhaustion. It’s that delightful state where your body is screaming for rest, but your nervous system is throwing an all-night rave you definitely didn’t RSVP to. For me, painsomnia isn’t just a bad night here or there—it’s a lifestyle. My bedtime? Somewhere between 2 and […]
Fibro Warriors Swear by THIS Simple Trick to Get Fit Without Flaring!
Let’s be real: when you have fibromyalgia, getting in shape sounds like a joke. Between the constant pain, unpredictable fatigue, and a body that acts like a rebellious teenager (hi, thyroid and blood sugar swings), the idea of a fitness plan can feel overwhelming. But the reality? Movement is medicine. We know that exercise helps […]
The Perfection Lie: How Letting Go Can Actually Make You Stronger
Once upon a time, I thought if I just tried harder, I could fix myself. If I pushed through the pain, ignored the fatigue, and willed my brain fog away, I could still be the person I used to be—the productive, capable, independent version of me. Spoiler alert: That didn’t work. At all. Turns out, […]
Why They Think You’re Dramatic (And How to Make Them See the Truth)
Living with fibromyalgia is like living in a foreign country, and the language is one only other chronic illness warriors understand. If you’re lucky enough to find someone who “speaks fibro fluently” (shoutout to my sister-from-another-mister with chronic fatigue), you know how comforting it feels. But when it comes to explaining your needs to loved […]
Doctors Won’t Tell You This—The Tiny Trick That Makes Fibro Life Easier!
When you’re living with fibromyalgia, the definition of success often requires a complete overhaul. It’s no longer about conquering mile-long to-do lists or chasing perfection—it’s about the small wins that keep life manageable and fulfilling. These wins, though seemingly modest, hold immense power in shaping emotional well-being, boosting self-esteem, and improving relationships. What Counts as […]